Personal reflections (4)
First, the "equal treatment"
Students and a large dragon in cooperation staged a free transfer of rural labor force training, he was responsible for teaching this one. The courses offered in most computer-related professional, because the training cycle is short, it twenty days, we had to recruit temporary teachers. But also to take care of the students, looking for a big dragon had been two classes of secondary school students in the village, but now they are learning computer, one has teaching experience, and second, there is a basic computer, office automation for the training class should still be no problem of.
Wages in January 1500, the time is three hours a day, may be late morning, if by day is the 50 day period will total more than 20 days, as a part-time job that is better than this. But two classmates did not take long, they begin to complain that their common reason is this: the great dragon and the same work, their wages are a bit low, at least lower than that of a large dragon. They claim nothing more than "equal treatment" to ensure psychological balance.
Naturally, the two of them later resigned. This is a typical psychological comparisons, and is not the result of rational thinking. Also a classmate, why among people in the community, there are so many differences in life do? Let us not from intelligence, emotional intelligence analysis, purely from active and passive human point of view, you can decide who ability, those who weak. A people's initiative and strong, and do one thing when he would think of how to do better through this thing can develop what else, this matter can not be long-term development; while a person is passive, that he I want to do it to have much benefit, but can cost less effort, and time of day can not exceed, otherwise it can not work their own disadvantage.
There is a Chinese word "willing", its meaning is very profound, so-called "willing to be willing to give up how will get." Many lifetime mediocre people, in the word above, there is no deep to understand, to practice.
Even if we are all the same jobs, but also to the ability of high and low points, even if the same base salary, bonuses or other extra income that is their own is not the same. Countries have been talking about "common prosperity", "common prosperity", its essence is not the "average rich", "equal affluence." From the above analysis, in addition to equal treatment on the human, "equal treatment" on the material that is not possible.
Second, the causes of Chinese people spitting
Chinese people spitting chaos, the Chinese people themselves actually does not matter, but it is one of the foreigners is very sensitive to the issue. See "Monthly essay" The author has written an essay to join the tourism Leaning Tower of Pisa, actually saw a "no spitting" signs are written in Chinese characters, showing that foreigners Chinese people spitting pay attention to the problem; a few days before the online news article, "four foreign reporters to talk about China: the most disgusting traffic jam and spitting" is also one of the reasons more concentrated reflection of foreigners in China are not accustomed to.
Here to talk about the quality and habit of spitting on those issues. Most Chinese people are farmers, most of the city's residents still farmers many years ago, and many textbooks and domestic laws and regulations which have not this one, because it's just a code of ethics, can not be written as a dogma. Here we talk about the spitting problem caused by living space.
Speaking to start smoking, and now the smoke has become a major economic income countries become your joints items come to me, have become a kind of "food" Some time-consuming, cool and enjoyable. Smoking is not here to talk to people, harm to the nation, but most are the number of smokers will produce sputum, it is well known, endured swallow phlegm that Chinese people do not like to pay. Offices, streets everywhere are mostly lost items like cigarette butts, spitting certainly become an accessory. Speaking in front of the city where a majority of people from the countryside or the rural population is flowing, rural areas are not allowed to know spitting, littering regulations are not allowed to do something? It certainly is not, that's four rural mud soil, will not want to pay attention. Mainly in rural areas to have a smoking habit of spitting, especially those who suck smoke grass, holding tobacco stems smoke, that's two suction vomit bite. So spitting, from a number of ways, caused by tobacco. Most foreigners do not smoke, I see at least the majority, so the less spitting, has also become a good habit.
A few years ago, it is safe in order to develop the economy, forcing farmers to plant tobacco, not specified kinds of tobacco land and planted corn seed to a full shovel out. Foreigners do not even smoke cigarettes, Monopoly Chinese people, then think of the Opium War, the Chinese people a lot of addiction big three or four pack a day, spent the equivalent of half their income, do not like opium of the year? Today Singapore smoking, do not back the economy? !
Another reason spitting, is the air of cities. Many people may feel this way, usually do not spit on people sometimes have a lot of phlegm Why would I have this feeling. When people inhale a certain amount of exhaust gas will naturally into dust-stained sputum, which is a person's emergency response function of the organ made. Development of industrial economy, so that our daily necessities aspects have been greatly improved, but our natural environment is worse day by day. Today's global catastrophe caused by global warming ample proof of this number.
We have only one earth, we hope people will protect it. This is not ordinary people can think of can be changed, a greater need for macro-control of national governments.
Cause spitting, there is one aspect. When a person urgency, the city can not find public toilets, can not be swelling go die, not to say that the ability of the average person, there is only one solution - and find a quiet place relative partial local solutions. A person wants to spit on and he wanted to urinate should be about the truth, but the face is not so important it was.
Here, it is necessary to talk about public health facilities in the cities, the street is difficult to see a standard public toilets, trash but added, but the design is really a problem, let go in sputum that was devoted to spit training. And business center, a position that could have been put in the trash, preferring to let it be a corner store, because few public toilets are among them. Now the city at night basically chaos pee quite serious, as long as nobody nobody saw it, spitting is as long as nobody no one sees it. The main specification is no place to spit and spread, sprinkle and no place to spit, it now contributes to spread chaos Luantu.
To solve this problem, so many of whose people can be shameless, in fact, also for the sake of their health, the other person has nothing to do with their health on.
Third, sell fakes than the real thing
Paintings, antiques like the real thing, and so most of my people are renowned for missed even seen at the exhibition, also mostly imitation, which is fake.
Social progress, economic development, people have money, collectibles genuine paintings, antiques are more and more people, but no lack of imitation, after all, a limited number of the real thing. So what now sell paintings, antique shop, or arts and crafts store, the store occupies more and more fakes. Besides, I have no money and other people will only buy a fake.
Buy fakes, mainly cheap compared to the real thing, but also a wide variety on the market, particularly a choice. There is a lot of fake brand is playing out imitation, its still more innovation, more sophisticated and can enjoy, so the fake is still relatively good.
Zhao also being a fake name. That Spring Festival "hydrotechnic" Zhao Benshan can put that fake dad play most vividly, the extension application out of more significance is moving.
Artificial beauty, even more so in imitation has become a hot social life. The world's first man-made beauty out of I do not know which place, but the transformation of China's first really successful, and now this plastic surgery industry has grown into every corner of the town.
Plain enough to do a fake, and that comes in is nothing wrong in the world. But why some people a few cents of fluorescent beads, hard blown into hundreds of thousands of Sarah, a woman will eventually lured the hands of 23,000 yuan, which is a few days before the online news article. But this is people's love of money is the mental, psychological greed of everyone, but more important to reason on the matter.
Fourth, the girls face
In fact, my experience in this area is very poor, should be insufficient to talk about, but saw and heard through so many years, or as small talk or two. If outgoing personality, this area experienced people will not look at the.
Meet, of course, we must introduce clear that he, or the other is too know people do not know their names. If this is the time to eat, no matter who take the initiative to eat, had generous point, this is not to produce it, spend it should be.
Before meeting, you have to pay attention to their dress, if the other party is a career girl, then you can formalize it, it's best to be casual. Because most girls are more like the "informal" man, even if you are out of disguise. For me, the current girls only "professional" and "non-professional" points.
Mostly "non-professional" girls, so like more "non-professional" men, so many men to work from work wear to work is to become a casual family. And I did not do this.
About language, in fact, I was rather poor, and if there is a good common topic is the best. And I know something, but it is the most girls do not understand or do not like, such as current events, theoretical work and computer technology. In front of the girls, joke, joke, then, what kind of fashion and tourism is the best, if relevant emotes language matched that be perfect.
So in front of the girls, what you need is more acting talent. Dancing, singing, piano and other prominent aspects, should be able to stretch freely in front of the girls.
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