When it comes to jujiao, I think of Ji Kang's book of Juyuan's jujiao and some plots in the martial arts drama. However, if I had to name it, I couldn't remember it for a while. Generally speaking, all the stories about breaking off friends are mostly good stories. Generally speaking, one side must uphold the principle of justice and disdain to be with the fallen old friends. In short, it is "different ways do not conspire against each other". This reason is suitable for all the affairs of breaking off friends. The only difference is the "Tao". It's not surprising to break up for the sake of morality and interest. It's also common to break up for the sake of women, money or other trivial matters. For example, if the neighbors stumble once, they will never speak again. From the vulgar point of view, starting from the rational economic man, the reason why the breakout is because the cost of the breakout is not far more than the benefits of harmony. Of course, people are not always rational, especially Ji Kang.

It's more than ten years ago that I broke off with others for the first time. It's a sense of vicissitudes, in fact, when I was a primary school student. I had already forgotten it, but I remembered it when I wrote down the subject. At that time, I was not as eccentric as I am now. I was very happy to have a partner to play with. Among them, I had a very good relationship with Z Jun. I even made a bow together in imitation of the plot of the TV play. But my mother didn't like him. She asked me not to associate with him any more. I don't remember whether I listened to my mother. Anyway, after Z Jun transferred to school, I didn't know what happened. I wrote a farewell letter to him and entrusted it to him. After he read it, he asked me for my toys back. I've never felt sorry about this. Maybe we can't play together then.

Once again, it's a matter of entering university. More accurately, it's a matter of being cut off by others. Of course, I would like to say that the breakup here is limited to friendship, not to the breakup in love. Mr. s and I had a year of intimate time. It seems that intimate time is not too much. We have classes, go to the library, eat together, play games and have a part-time job together. Now I think it's quite amazing. We have great differences in interest and living habits. He is a top student who works and sleeps on time, while I am a bohemian, ignorant and unskilled man. I don't know when the crack came into being, and I don't want to explore it any more. In a word, he doesn't talk to me anymore. As for me, I'm also a bit touchy. It's a little revenge that I've done music playing outside in my dorm. It's probably disgusting to another roommate. As a retribution, I have to endure this kind of life every day now. When I think of my past evil deeds, I have no choice but to bear them in silence. I didn't do this to lose his friendship. It was only a kind of "vengeance". After the break, I don't know how he evaluated me, but I expressed my opinion that I didn't like some of his qualities. If it's a bad word, I have violated the way of a gentleman. Now it's more than three years since this incident happened, and I've stopped thinking about it a long time ago.

What I didn't expect was that this kind of situation happened again in September. It seems to me that it was all for trivial matters. If I find the reason from myself, I don't like to communicate with others. If the friendship of more than three years ends so easily, I don't think it's a pity. I've never been an active person, but I have a strong self-esteem, so it's impossible to be nice to each other. Let it be as it is. It's better to continue to break off friends and make up as before. I still think of him as before. I can't predict the final outcome of this matter, so I won't say much, as long as I follow the way of a gentleman.

In his novel, Tanizaki said that Playboys are not nostalgic for their past lovers. They are always pursuing new stimulation. Although such analogy is not appropriate, it seems that I am also so. I have always felt that I am a nostalgic person, but I have nothing to do with my old classmates, so I have few old friends. As for my new friends, unfortunately, I haven't made them. In the matter of making friends, I have a "cleanliness addiction", my own level is not high, but I can't see others. One of the reasons for this is probably information asymmetry. After all, I'm always lazy to communicate with others. Some people say it's enough to have a few good friends. I think it's better to have a little more friends, but if we can't, we can only go alone.