Encounter such a person, how to do?
If you have been concerned about my blog people will know that I am a person a Mensao introverted. He came to the company in November last year, when a stranger who did not know. Noon to go eat when you get a little bit at a loss. And then we were invited today to say this went for a bowl of "ever embarrassing lunch (rice noodle)"!
That would have to wait to go with my friend, he went to the toilet was this man (later called him "forest guide") called together the first went down. Accompanied by "Deng guide" "Guoye" sounds like the four of us. Down the hall after I asked my friend how unequal, forest guide said: waiting for him and so is he doing? I get that at the time was to follow not, do not follow them no. Finally no option but to follow up. On the way to also take the initiative and accosted me! Then this personal impression is not bad!
To a place to eat and decided to eat noodle! (Foreign friends may not know what is? Rice is similar, but much more than that coarse food made of rice milk.) This is embarrassing, a few big men on eating noodle on OK? After the opening, and all eat together, they must be because I'm such a "stranger", get everyone quietly push lightly with a noodle did not speak. Later, it was probably wait any longer, began to discuss what to eat the next day? To discuss to discuss them actually decided to eat hot pot! And then the no!
After a long period of time, to say the "forest guide" quite a good impression! But since that time out of the question that more and more people feel a nuisance.
My friends are my superiors, leave that day he did not come! The forest guide it directly to ask me what the most recent period have done? List what specific things the most recent to do. I was forced to face is a look of ignorant!
But no way was he who let a small lead it? Had to reply! Then he felt our work is not saturated, the next day I come to work with friends to start a conversation with him. I get too ............. long story in front of friends! (This can only explain a problem, I'm too tender! Road after school smart enough, I ask a similar situation, unified answer you do not know who to turn to who to turn to!)
From this time I met him to set words, he was once the pit. He began his impression plummeted! He caught off guard one day and began to beware of the pit once?
After the above two points may be finished, you may still feel it does not matter? Nothing wrong with ah! To do nothing wrong, only that he and I are not in a pit level on the normal level. However, the following problems should be most of the "leadership" has the!
Lin lead this one is a very "studious" person! Lin lead this one is a very "learned" "know everything" people!
In the usual chat, to discuss some of the ordinary people understand a word of, a thing! The forest guide to forcibly insert topic commonly used method is to ask questions for a word, ask XX What does it mean? Why does XXX XXXX is it? Then put the topic would have been happy to force - better dead!
When reporting issues to the forest guide, a lot of things he actually do not understand do not understand! But he always fully understand or for which he only know how superficial things, put forward some very constructive he felt, he felt to make some amazing views. For chestnut:
Prior to the company three months to a Baidu index probably around 1500 words to optimize the home page! I and my friends have been in a serious effort of doing white hat SEO content. Deng Lin lead and guide at the meeting proposed to direct some of the methods of Black Hat SEO! We get overwhelmed! After all, they are the guide, we are just ordinary people! Had very tactfully tell them that this is wrong bad.
In fact, doing black hat SEO no problem, no objection but they actually have been proposed many years ago by the method of bad street - to simulate a click!
(! Deng forest guide guiding title higher level than it) looked at Deng Lin lead guide also expressed support for him, say the following words: It does not matter Well, I think this kind of thing should be going to try to do. How do you know there is no effect? In case made out there effect is not happy? Oh, if they really make a problem, at least it was a just try it out! No one will blame you! Heck, if they really have a negative impact, then I go to click on a competitor's site and more, all put down their web sites, it is more convenient?
Down my friend said, a problem that no one scapegoat strange!
There is also a particular problem: look at the figure below (I especially meow To clarify this matter also specifically drew a map)
Before the empty position 2 of Deng guide is sitting, he had gone to empty out. And I was sitting near the door of the location, walking up and down the aisle of the people can always see what I'm doing through the door! (For example, I would write these words, when someone suddenly from the door, from behind me flashed to my friend also lighter)
Deng then the guide had gone, I can not position on the proposal from a position near the door to the empty 2? I also added that I was (?) Want ~ at me like sister! Lin expressed can lead ah no problem! (o) ohhh I had heard him say can change really happy. I said earlier impression of him has plummeted seemingly has raised a lot of it!
But this talk of breath goods! Also added: change seats fine with me no problem at all, but! The location can not be near the door can not be empty nobody seat! Let people from outside through the hallway to see a bad position here empty impact! Ups and downs too fast! At that time the mood is this!
still have a question! The total number of open yourself feeling very funny joke.
In private chat, always in some cases outdated, open some of their feeling very, very funny joke. Then the others did not respond, he would giggle a few times with great force to suppress his embarrassment?
In fact, these are not terrible, terrible is that he has these problems, he did not feel entirely wrong feel very good! This is terrible!
There he is a person, especially someone righteous are welcome to use!
tail:
Turn once weekly meeting chaired forest guide (weekly meetings never had before so that each department hosted a small lead), sitting next to Center Director (count 21 floor greatest boss), then the forest guide said that word of it and Lida Kang secretary speak about the same! To follow the party, a mouthful of civil servants to do accent Conference Report! Listening to the big BOSS feel almost mad. He finished quickly stopped to hold back or to host big BOSS. And Tucao one: you are not the "name of the people" to see more?
All said 233,333.
Well, if you can read verbatim! I can admire you seemingly still busy than I am! (Cover art can not find a place to insert!)
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